Remembering Rob3...
It's been 19 days at this writing, since Rob went to Heaven. It doesn't seem to get much easier. Many e-cards that I have not been able to find time or strength to see, have expired now. Sorry for those who sent them, but, your thoughts are appreciated just the same. I am still trying to get to emails when I am up to it & I put them here as a remembrance for myself, but, also for others who are grieving. Many have written from Rob's & my own newsletters. People are praying, encouraging, sending much love. Some have even made me smile at the thoughts of Rob being handed over a Chefs hat as soon as he got to Heaven. We all know he's cooking with Curry in that case:) One lady wrote how he loved all his readers & welcomed EVERYONE to his LiveAndLetLive newsletter, no matter what their handicap. Well, Rob was like that. No one got left out of his life when they needed or wanted help & support. His Rob's Cooking Pot readers are sad for losing his recipes & humour. It was a time of day I always looked forward to...proof-reading his news. Whatever entered his head, went on the newsletter & I sometimes laughed till I cried at some of his antics. Our place was full of love & laughter, regardless of all the sickness.
I sure miss that. Much love to all...Patsy







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Hi Patsy,
     I was so very sorry to hear Rob had passed.
I truly enjoyed his sense of humor, and looked
forward to his little life story every week.
I know how hard this must be for you, and
will keep you in my prayers.
Be strong my Friend, Rob is watching over you,
and some day you will be together again.
I will miss his stories, and hope that some day
when your feeling better, you will take over, and
finish his week to week novel.
I pray the Lord gives you the strength to get through
this trying time.
Blessings, Barb from Butler, Pa


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The light of a distant star Continues to reach the earth long after the star itself is gone.
In the same way, the Light and Love your loved one gave will continue to Shine in many hearts.
Thanking God for your loved one's life, and thinking of you during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Michael C.


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Heaven
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Lisa B


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I absolutely just love your newsletters. I look forward to them every day. You are the best.
 
I was so very sorry to hear about Rob. I know I e-mailed him many times with little problems, etc. And I loved his newsletters, also. We discussed my dying when I had my heart attack, and he told me that God had other plans for me in this world, and I would know what they were, eventually. I really miss the conversations with him, the advice, the disabled NOT. He was a truly wonderful beautiful man. I know he is sitting there in heaven with the Good Lord and having a wonderful time. God needed him apparently more than we did. He wouldn't have taken such a cherished man away if He didn't need him in heaven. God bless all of you, and keep you safe til you all meet again. Don't forget, Rob is watching.
Love you.
Mare

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Dear Patsy&Kay,
 Just wanted to email you to let you both know i'm thinking about you. Your in my thoughts and my prayers.I too Kay, lost my Daddy years ago and we were very close, so I really understand how you feel.Time heals all wounds, makes it easier to deal and to live with. I cannot say I know how Patsy feels as my husband is still with me but I do know as long as you all hold him dear into your hearts,he will never die. I always think of all the good times we shared and that always helps me get thru the bad times.My Daddy has been dead now for 20 years and sometimes it feels like it just happened yesterday. And I talk to him quite alot too which helps me. But like I said always keep him in your heart and he will always be with you. If at any time you need a friend to just chat with please feel free to email me any time. As I said you and your mom are in my thoughts and prayers.
 Love&Prayers,     Drema


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Patsy I am so sorry to hear of Rob's passing, my computor has been down so I just got back on this evening.  I will keep you in my prayers.  I will be contacting you again I have changed my e-mail, so I'll let you know later.  Take Care Patsy!  Love and Hugs   puzzledteddy

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Patsy;
May God bless you.  Just remember that when you feel
you can't go on, ask for his help. That is exactly
what I did when I lost my husband 3 years ago.  But I
had to move on for our 3 children.  At the time 6, 2
1/2 and 14 months.  Just talk to Jesus and Rob.  They
will listen.
Sincerely,  Cary   Tucson, AZ


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Dear Patsy - I am devastated by your loss. When you're alone on the computer, you don't speak.
Then, all of a sudden, you yell "Oh, no, no."   Thank you for sharing your lives with those of us whom
you've never met, yet whom you've touched. For those of us who are alone and don't get out much,
your lives are an adventure. Oh, the places you've been! Rob is now in a place beyond pain and
suffering. Thank you for sharing the moments. May you be comforted in the darkest hours knowing
that the light of the Spirit lives on. Thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Sincerely, Andrea F


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Dear Patsy
I was away during the Holidays and just returned home and reading my
e-mails. I am so sorry to hear about Rob passing away (and going to Heaven, I'm
sure). We went to Tn and then NJ to be with family for the holidays.
And while there, I got very sick and we had to come home early.  So I
havent Had a chance to be on the computer.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Please, please keep up your e-mail letters as soon as you are able to.
I enjoy every one of them And I enjoyed Robscookingpot so very much.  
I laughed at some of them so hard.
I have used several of his recipes and kept a lot of his letters on
file.  So now I will have them.
My sincere condolences go out to you and yours.
Do you plan to live on there in Newfoundland?
Please let me hear from you when you feel up to it.
With love and prayer.
Sue


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OMG Patsy I am sooo sry . My computer was down and I didn't get this email til now Wed. the 14th. WOW I can't tell you how my heart bleeds for you . I too lost my husband in 98 and the is no pain less bearable then this. I still greive for him everyday that part will never go away but somehow you will find your way thru to make it day by day. I will be praying sooo hard for you and your families.
  My husband was also a writer and I have all his writings in a couple of folders. I have yet to put it together. But I do know he wants me to as I know that once you are able you must think about keeping some of Robs writings and mailings going. It will be such a comfort to you to know how many he has touched with all that he has done so please think and pray about it .
 If there is anything you want or need you may email me at anytime if I can help or you just wanna talk to someone who has been thru what you are going thru I truly will understand and remember no matter what you feel it's the right thing.
 Love and prayers your friend Carol


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I got all his news & even though I never met him ,he made me feel
important. He made it known that being disabled did not make you weak, it
made you stronger. I won some of his candy once & I felt lucky. From you, I
have learned it was a blessing, joy and yes even weird times for each
other, but yet it seemed a bond of Love only you two knew. He was a
Husband, father, friend & most of all courageous man. Heaven is lucky to have
an new angel named Rob. I am so proud to say in a way I knew him & if you
need a friend I'm here. God Speed Rob & spread that joy. I hope Patty this
doesn't make you sad, but helps you smile.


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You have my condolences. I've tried some of Rob's recipes and was always quite pleased. We all will miss him.
John L. - Ft. Worth, Texas


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Since you sent out the message regarding Rob going to Heaven, I have
included you in my prayers. I wish there were some magic words I could share
to help take away some of the emotional turmoil you must be going through.
Unfortunately I don't have any, but I will continue to keep you in my
thoughts and prayers.    LouAnn M


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Patsy and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Rob, These are the first e-mails I have recieved from you since sometime last year, I couldn't figure what happened, So please except my sorrow for your family.
Patsy I know what you are going through and it is going to be hard to get over, you never do. When you feel down, talk to Rob. He is listening to you and misses you. I lost my husband 3 1/2 years ago, and even though I have met someone, I still talk to him and ask for help. TAlk to him with your family, anything will help. You have a lot of people behind you and you are in our prayers.  Lots of love to you
Violet L


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My sincerest condolences to you and your family, Kay.
This site helped us tremendously when we were dealing with the illnesses of my roommate's parents; maybe it can help you too.
Journey of Hearts: A Healing Place for those Dealing with Grief
http://www.journeyofhearts.org/jofh
You're all in my prayers!
Love, Renie


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It is still very hard for me I cry for you I guess because every time i look at your picture i cry. I have your name on the prayer list at church and i pray for you daily. I dont even like to get on this thing since i read that e-mail. But I guess life goes on and Rob would want us to talk about the good things and laugh instead of being sad I am so honored to have him as a friend. Love Marie

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You and yours are in my prayers. God Bless You,
Joe


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I AM PRAYING FOR YOU!!
 
HI PATSY, I HOPE YOU ARE HOLDING UP OK..I AM SO SORRY FOR YOU HON..I WISH I COULD TAKE AWAY ALL YOUR HURT BUT I KNOW I CAN'T SO I COULD SEND YOU A CARD ONCE IN AWHILE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT GOD WALKS BESIDE YOU IN ALL YOU DO...LEAN ON HIM, CAUSE THATS WHAT HES THERE FOR..I LOVE YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU SWEETIE......... Nancy M


"Lo I am with you always, even unto the end of the world". Matt . 28:20

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I know it's late but...
you can take away a friend, but not the joy of having had that friend.  i lost my other half 9 years ago (at 39).
i understand your grief, and empathize with you.  just know that there are people everywhere who care.
joan 

 
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Patsy~
I love your newsletter keep up the great work. 
However, I am writing to let you know that I was so floored as to what has transpired in your life recently.  I'm going through my own "issues", however I wanted to let you know that you have been in my prayers and my prayer chain.  People all over are with you, however the most important part is...our Lord is carrying you all the way.  Try to keep your chin up and know that so many people love you and need you.  Remember the blessing that the Lord has given you by Him giving you Rob to have some wonderful memories...relive in those memories today!
Praying for you,
Sandra


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I was very sorry to hear about rob's passing. Your family will be in my prayers. May God bless you all at this time. My sincerest sympathy. Chris

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I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ROB HE WILL BE TRUELY MISSED,  I AM JUST HEARING
BECAUSE I TOO LOST MY MOTHER ON DECEMBER 27 AND I AM JUST GETTING BACK TO
WORK TO BY PC.   MY DEEPEST COMFORT GOES OUT TO YOU.
Sharon B


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May God give you the strength to be strong for all.. Cantrel B

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my prayers to you and your family  MC

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I myself almost lost my husband. He was in surgery for  simple ear blockage when he to went into cardic arrest right there on the table. If there wasn't a cardiologist at the scene he would of died in a matter of minutes. He still isn't back to normal. He has had severaI strokes since. I don't think he will ever be back to normal. But his will is very strong. It's a terrible thing when the person we love leaves us and suddenly at that. I can't even comprehend how you must be feeling. But you aren't alone. We are here for you. Pray Pat he will hear you & be right there by your side. God Bless you and your family.   Gillian

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I am so sorry for your lost I do know how it feels I lost the most important person in my life in April it was my Mom she was my best friend and we did everything together So my prayers are with you and life does go on but it is hard at first. I know it is still hard for me to face the day but I have to there are other people in my life and I am sure in yours that need us. So I will pray for you and know that in time you will be ok.
God Bless You and Keep You
Nesta

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Patsy,
My prayers and sympathy are with you and your family. I know how hard this is for you and your family. Keep the faith.
Christine


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Your family has my sympathy. Lee

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Kay & Patsy:
Many condolences to all of you with this sudden loss. We subscribers will be fine, Patsy. You just do what you must to handle this loss and remember that we all are thinking of you and knowing that you will return to us once you deal with this crisis. Hang in there. With best wishes and every good thought.
Jim


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I am so very sorry about your great loss....I totally understand everything you both wrote as my beloved husband was killed on the job six years ago and my entire world shattered....I will keep you in my prayers always.  I wish there was a way I could help with your pain......God Bless and remember, we will see the ones we love and miss so very, very much again.  The waiting is hard, but, knowing that in time God will bring us all together again is something to hold onto.  Patricia M, Memphis, TN...... 

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Dear Patsy and/or Kay,
Once again please let me say how sorry I am and how lost I feel already.  That was just knowing Rob for the short time I did so I cannot even begin to imagine your feelings and loneliness.  Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do for you to help you through this and beyond.  Dear this was sent out to all of us on December 30,2003.  I know it is difficult at a time like this to remember everything.  I wish I knew more about computers and publishing as I would do both your newsletters until you are able to come back to it.  Also I really more than ever wish I could pick up and continues Rob's cooking and recipe newsletter and encouragement to the disabled and handicapped.  He was a true HERO in my book and always will be.   If either of you would be willing and patient enough to teach me and allow me to continue Rob's great work I would appreciate it and would want NO COMPENSATION whatsoever for doing it.  I was always taught that death comes in threes yet Rob was my third and today exactly one week to the day after the first I learned of the death of a cousin.  I am somewhat sad over Clarence's death however cannot be too sad as he was 100 years 6 months old.  Please remember that I DEARLY LOVE YOU ALL and am here for you anytime at all.
Love, Tom 


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Kay, My prayers are with you, your Mom and your entire family.  I am so
sorry.  I pray that our God will lift you all up during the time.  Remember
our prayers are with you all. love ya  Bette  in Texas


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Patsy,
   I am so sorry! Today was the first chance for me to get on my computer
since before Christmas. I just can't believe it.
   If there is anything that I can do for you..please let me know.
   Rob was a wonderful, caring, and giving man; I'm sure that God has a
special place for him at His side. I know that it's probably not any
consolation, but at least he won't have to look for spare wheelchair parts
in Heaven. He's not in pain..and he's walking.
   I am serious; if there is anything that I can do to help, please don't
hesitate to ask. I know that we have never met personally, but you've shared
so much of your life; I consider you one of my friends. If I can do
something for you, I will. After all, we're both familiar with onion syrup!
Love and Sympathy,  Paula


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I am soo soo soo sorry to hear of your loss.
My prayers are with you.
Kim S


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I am so sorry. It is always our loss is Heavens gain.
You made his life full in every way.
When God calls us home we must go.
I am sure he was at peace with that too.
Take your time and go through the stages of grieving.
Remember, He is always with you and watching over you.
He lives inside your heart and in your memories.
He is not dead. He just went home.
You will join him someday again in Heaven.
God Bless,
My Prayers are with YOU,
Bonnie Jean


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I am sorry for your loss. Yuetiva

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I am so sorry for you. When my husband died it was so bad and I wish I could do something to take away part of your grief. My tears and prayers are with you and if I can do something please let me know. Betty  portsmouth va. GOD  Bless you.

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DEAR PATSY:
 
THERE ARE NO WORDS TO SAY TO YOU TO EASE YOUR SORROW. BE ENCOURAGE TO KNOW THAT YOU AND ROB WILL BE BACK TOGETHER IN HEAVEN.
 
YOU MAY HAVE LOVE ROB, BUT GOD LOVES HIM THE BEST. HE LOOKING DOWN ON YOU WITH A SMILE RIGHT NOW AND TALKING TO THE SAVIOR ABOUT YOU.
 
BE ENCOURAGE
LOVE YOU
JULIA


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patsy i will pray for you i'm very sorry for your loss of rob

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So sorry. I have been reading your newsletters for over a year and vote occasionally. I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy on your loss of Rob, I have prayed for you all many times over and over .
For Rob especially. May God hold him close and may you find peace in his love.
DJ from TN


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Know that you have my deepest sympathy. I guess God needed another angel. Know that Rob is in the best hands that he can be in at this time. He is with our maker. I know that God is holding you in the palm of his hand at this time as He is the only one that can subside our pain.
I know, I lost mine when I was pregnant with his only child who is now 20. She is Gods greatest gift to me. I ask God to hold my heart when I hurt. I ask him to hold yours too at this time.
Know You and your family are in my prayers.
Be Blessed
Brenda P


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yes, patsy
i do know what you are feeling. i lost my husband a little over 2yrs ago and not a day go by that i don't miss him. Just take the time and everyone will understand you wanting to be alone,
bonnie g


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This has touched me greatly. I have recently lost two dear family members and my heart and prayers go out to you. Take time to be good to yourself; but know that you are loved and we will be eager to hear how you are progressing. You will see your Rob again when your souls will be reunited thru Jesus Christ. Lola T

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Patsy, I am so sorry to hear about your husband and he is with the lord and he is safe and I know what you are going through, you will get through, but it will take lots of time...
Your Friend, Mary


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Patsy I am so sorry to here about Rob. Please accept my deepest sympathy.You will both be in my prayers. I too am a widow and have been widowed for almost six years now. My husband was only 48 years old when he passed. Please have faith that God has a plan for Rob and a plan for you. You do God's work daily with your wonderful newsletters. Right now you are going through one of the most difficult times of your life but I can assure you that when the grief eases a bit you will be left with wonderful memories. Through these memories Rob will live on forever.
I would like to suggest a few support systems for when you are ready. There is a wonderful website called www.GROWW.org
If you need a shoulder to cry on mine is available. Life continues through love. God Bless you and may the New Year bring you peace.  Lynn
It is a site where you can communicate with other widows and widowers and share your feeling 24/7. If nothing else helps you to realize that you are not alone and that all your feelings are really quite normal even if you wonder sometimes. I also joined a local grief support group at the Visiting Nurse Assoc in my town. That helped tremendously and I made some great friends from it too. Sometimes as the Mom we tend to help everyone else and keep our grief to ourselves but by going to the groups we get help ourselves and this in turn allows us to help the rest of the family.

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SORRY
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I am so sorry about your loss. I know how it feels to lose someone so close and someone that you love. he is in Gods hands now and i hope that you and your family get through this tragic time. god bless. Melisha R in augusta, ga

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So sorry to hear of your loss.  My heart goes out to you. May Rob, and all of God's angels watch over you in your time of greif.  My prayers are with you.
Robin L


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Dear Patsy,
     I feel so very bad for you and your family. When I read about Rob this morning I cried, as if he was a member of my own family. Since I started receiving your newsletter ,I have been through all your ups and downs with you.
      I am recovering from throat cancer and as Rob was going through his medical trials, I was going through my own and I always felt a kinship to him and to you.
       I am one of the "silent members" of your followers, but I just had to send a note of love and caring in your time of grief.
       As you have done in the past, continue into the future----rely on God, know that he is there for you---now more than ever.
 With all my love and Prayers, Joyce R   Etna Green, In


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DEAREST PATSY AND FAMILY,
WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS THE SORROW I FEEL FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.  OUR PRAYERS ARE
WITH YOU.  ALL OUR LOVE, ANGIE W AND FAMILY


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When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
http://www.promiseofgod.com/withoutme/

I am so sorry to hear about Rob's passing.  Please know that you and Kay are in
my thoughts and prayers always.  I received this page after my husband passed
away.  Yes, it made me cry but it also helped.  {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} Love you!!!!
 Helen

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Dear Patsy;
I just wanted to drop you a note again today.  I truly appreciate the "Remembering Rob" pages you are putting out for all of us.  Thank-you for thinking of all of us during this time of intense grief. 
It seems trite to ask you how you are doing, but I do care.  Are you getting enough sleep and the right foods?  Remember to take care of yourself.  During the initial stages of grief it is very common to simply forget to sleep and eat, or we just nibble on chips and cookies, we don't get the proper, nutritious foods.  Let other people take care of you.  Now is the time to lean on friends and family and draw your strength from them.  Remember that God is carrying you in His hands right now. 
I only "know" you and Rob from your newsletters, but I do feel as though you are a part of my circle of friends and family.  I cry every time I read these pages.  You were truly blessed to have had a love like you and Rob shared.  Hang onto that thought, most of us never experience that kind of love with our spouse.  Continue to lean on God, He is the One who will see you through this tragedy. 
I keep remembering one of your last newsletters before Rob's death.  You were describing an outing you had where you had been driving and he got to see so many beautiful Christmas lights.  I can imagine his face all lit up like a little boy's!  What a special memory, to know that you made him so happy and brought him such delight and joy.  Cling to those memories, even write them down if you want and put them in a pretty box, a memory box.  Then on days when it seems as though the grief will simply overwhelm you, sit down in a sunny window and start pulling out the memories and read them and remember. 
Get out and take long walks.  The fresh air will invigorate you and help chase away the depression.  The increased circulation will also release endorphins which are your body's natural mood-elevators and pain killers.  I find that a long walk will clear my mind and help me to forget my problems, at least temporarily.  And the exercise never hurts us.  Getting outside and marveling at God's creation is always a good way to help us gain a more positive perspective.  Allow His nature to be a healing balm to your bruised and bleeding heart.
Remember that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  I am only an email away if you want to talk.
Love and Prayers,
Kim P


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Dear Patsy,
      I just wanted to let you know that I am probably one of the "expired e-cards".
But I really wanted to share with you my thoughts and feelings of Rob.  When I first signed up for his Live and Let Live newsletter, I was thinking O.K.  just another newsletter saying don't feel sorry for yourself.  But I was soooo wrong.  Rob's newsletter gave me strength and courage to face the world in a wheelchair.  I sent many e-mails to Rob about me being in a wheelchair and how could I deal with life.  He gladly answered them and really made me feel better.  Through Rob's newsletter I learned alot. He really helped me to cope with what life had dealt.  I really enjoyed his Cooking pot newsletter also.  We traded many recipes and I shared many of his with family and friends.  I truly lost a great friend and I will miss him as well.  I will wait for the day when we can join him in Heaven and WALK the Streets of Gold.  May God bless you and keep you safe till it is time to join Rob.  I know he is dancing in Heaven now.  Love to you and Kay,
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Patsy, I know you'll miss your husband, but if he's in the presence of Jesus, He's
Happier than you could even bear to feel here. Jesus loves you both very much!
Today' wednesday the 31st, In two Days my husband Chuck is having his right foot
amputated due to a severe crush injury with his bobcat on a job he was starting
backin the beginning of NOVEMBER(uninsured too). I FEEL ALMOST LIKE
IT'S MY LEG THAT'S GOING TO BE REMOVED.   THE BOTTOM LINE IS
JESUS IS GOING TO GET US THROUGH THIS AND OTHER PROBLEMS WE
FACE TOO. PATSY, PLEASE TRUST IN THE LORD. Come unto me all ye that labor
and are heavy laden and I will give you rest the Lord says.Thats what I'm gonna do :
I hope you will too!! God Bless, your sister In the Lord, Linda


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Dear Patsy,

I am deeply saddened at your message today.  Rob was such a part of your
e-letters and I also received the two he produced and enjoyed them as well.

I am glad that you got there to let him know of your presence and that he
left with a "smile".  I know that it was meant for you as a way of saying,
"I love you Patsy".  Hold that close to your heart and your memories of your
time together on earth and look forward to when you will be together again
in the future.  Somehow, I felt as though you two were "soul mates" from
your letters.  Take pride in that and know that he will wait for you again.

If there is anything I can do for you through e-mail, a call, etc., let me
know.  I would be pleased and honored to help you and Rob.  If you ever want
to get away for a bit you're welcome here even though Florida is not your
favorite place.  We have lots of room for friends and I consider you to be
one of them!

Take care and God bless and keep you safe.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you,
Beth P


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Patsy,
I am saddened by your loss and share your emptiness. I
know what it is to lose a life time partner and hope
that you will not withdraw from the world. Sometimes
it helps to carry on with routine even though you don't
want to. Just remember that we are all here for you if
you need to talk. Sympathy to you,
Jeannine


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Patsy,
I know you have heard all things people want you to hear.  I want you to
know that Rob & you have been a great inspiration to me since I started
receiving your news letter this year.  I know Rob is in Heaven looking down
on you right now & he will always be with you in your heart.  I know you
want to be with him but Rob would want you to live on & keep his memory
alive & keep doing all the good you do.  You yourself are an angel on earth.
Everything ya'll have done for other people when things were so crazy for
you guys.  Ya'll give me strength & courage to keep going.  Thank you for
sharing Rob with us.  He will never be forgotten.  My thoughts & prayers are
with you & your family.  Remember....If God brings you to it -He will bring
you through it. Thanks,  Janet


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So sorry.....

Dear Patsy,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. From what I've heard, he had a heart of gold! I know that the one thing that you don't truly want to hear is have a Happy New year, because I know it's going to be a difficult time for you. I just want to say that you and yours are in my prayers, and please know that as hard as this time is going to be....know you have one more angel watching over you. God bless you,
Amy S


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Once again please say a prayer for Patsy.
I soooo wish I could hug her! After I read her letter
last night telling us that her husband passed away yesterday
I ran to the bedroom and hugged my hubby.
You have to cherish everyday with your loved ones because
you never know when God will send them home.


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Patsy I hope this finds you doing well.  I know this has to be a very hard time for you and your family.  I suggest you rely on God and all your friends that you have out here in Cyberspace.  I wrote to you last summer about my situation and you were right and God brought us through it.  Mike and I were talking last night , he does'nt have to fight to get that  wheel chair to work anymore, and he is dancing, really dancing.  I can close my eyes and I can see him doing that and I am sure you can too.  He is smiling and laughing with the peace that only God can give him.  We all know that!!!!  There are great times to remember and I am so glad you have shared them with us.  I do enjoy your stories and I will look forward to you back online soon.  You have a ministery and you are good at it.  That is what God wants you to be doing and if you talk to him I know you are, he will tell you that.  I have placed you on our churchs prayer list and a local christion radio station that has now went tri state with the story .  our prayers are with you and I will look forward to seeing you on line soon.     sincerely Sandi P  (smiley)

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 Thoughts of You
 I followed Robs progress all of the time he was in the hospital and when he
finally was allowed to come home..for some reason, I am unable to get your
letters anymore but read in JD's letter about his passing..
 No words can take the pain away you are feeling right now..just know that many
have you in their thoughts at this time..
 From one who has been there
 Gloria C


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Patsy I do not know what to say. I just got home. My daughter left this morning for
Florida. She's starting a new life for her. I was crying all the way home. I lost
my husband a few years ago. Sometimes you feel you will never stop crying. My
thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please take care of yourself.
Lots of Love and Hugs
Sandy (Vermont)


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You are with  him forever  in your heart and in spirit  My heart goes out to you  in this trying time 
God bless you and keep you safe and help you heal 


Remembering Rob4
http://www.pakadevasfreebees.com/RememberingRob4.html
Patsy rpkdv@nf.aibn.com