Remembering Rob4...
When you reach this page, it will be one month since Rob went Home to Heavenly father. He has left a void that others can't fill...others CAN help heal. Family & friends call to keep me company. Others come & walk with me, or make me a meal. Many, many, many...have sent cards, letters, angels, bookmarks, & even funny things to make me smile again. I am still going slowly through emails from Rob's & my newsletters & people I don't even know, have been touched by our story & feel a sense of loss & reach out to me in these emails, with a few kind words & advice. These pages are full of them. Hopefully it will help others who come here to read & grieve & remember. Always remember to show your love, tell your love, give love freely. When you love someone, in whatever way you love, always remember to let people know. Tomorrow one of you may be missing & it will be too late then to correct it. Thank God, Rob & I always displayed our love to each other & always to our family & friends. I send to all of you reading this, my love, still....Patsy

 
Patsy & Rob

 


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Patsy,
A good man with inspiring and sincere ideas passes away.
We wish you all the best with this loss until you're reunited in the Temple above.
Jan & Tekler R, Almere, Netherlands.


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My sympathy, God will take care of him, please take care of yourself.  My Mom died on her birthday Sept. 22, she was 80. 
I was with her the night before and experienced the angels coming to her, I am a changed person, I know that was a gift from God.  Never fear, you will be together again.
Thanks a bunch,,,Snookie~~Cheryl G.  Pray for PEACE


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Dear Patsy,    I am truely so sorry to hear of Robs death. I know it must be so hard . Just to figure out what to do the day your in. You see my husband has cancer and we have been married for 42 years and I can,t imagine liveing with out him. But with Gods help you too will learn to go on. We will all miss him but he will always be in your heart forever. I wish you strenght and courage in this time of need. I will pray for you.  Hugs Carole

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you are in my thoughts and prayers. I too will lose my hubby of 27 years. God always calls the best ones home to brighten heaven for us when we get there. debbie 

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Patsy,
You have my most heartfelt sympathy....I came close to losing my husband
last march during a carjacking...The Lord saw fit to spare him of which I am
most grateful...I will be praying for you. God Bless you Patsy...He is with
Jesus and is watching over you.
Always  Denise


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Hello Patsy..... 
It's so hard to know what to say when someone loses the most important person in
their life.  I am so sorry about Rob....  I've been a subscriber for a couple of
years and have felt for you with each challenge that came your way.  Both of you
handled life and its twists and turns - no matter how hard.  You and your family
will be in our Prayers.  Better days will come.....until then, keep putting one
foot in front of the other.  I have been where you are today, and it is not
easy, but somehow we manage to survive - and you are a survivor!   If all the
Prayers out in the world for you were combined into one today, you would not be
able to see over or around it because it would fill your home, your lives.....
Be strong...Shirley L & Family


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I will keep you and yours in my prayers. 

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Dear Patsy:  I have been reading your letter for a long time and have watched you and Rob go through so much. 
I just wanted to let you know that I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers. 
My best to you and hope to hear from you again soon.  Virginia


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Patsy..
I send my deepest regrets to you and your family..I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I never had the pleasure to meet your Rob, But I 2 have a love of my life and He is my whole world, and I do not know what I would do without him.

The Tears will eventually stop, but for now, let them flow Sweat heart..Tears are very healing. It helps to release some of the anger and hurt that you feel for your loss, with every tear that falls, it is being replaced with love from God.

May God be with you in your time of need, and rest assured knowing that he is not in any more pain and that Your Rob is with you always and he is in the comfort and Love of our wonderful Father above.When your time comes, you will be with him again.

I have appricate your emails  when I get them and I understand if you are unable to put any out for a while, if at all anymore..You are in my prayers Sweetie.((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))) take care. And if possible...Happy New year...
Pam aka Corkedfish


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Patsy:
I am so sorry to hear about your husband Rob.  God will walk this hard journey with you and keep you near Him.   
Phyllis


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sorry about your loss. keep praying and maybe it will get you through this. love from an e mailer

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Dear "Patsy",
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.....yes, he is safely in the arms of our Saviour....however,
the pain of the loss is still great right now.   Know that you will be in our families' prayers and
that God is always with you. Remember the footprints in the sand......Jesus will carry you in your
most grievious moment and difficult times.   Take care of yourself and God Bless.
Kate S and family


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God be with you..you have my sympathy....Karole S

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Oh Patsy, I am so sorry. I will keep you in my prayers.
Ann,  Vancouver, Canada.


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 I am keeping you in my prayers. I know that nothing is really a comfort at these very sad times but we can rest assured that when our loved ones are in God's hands they are at peace & we will see them again some time in the future. All my prayers & thoughts go with you at this time. Your sister in Christ
Rose Marie S


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Dear Patsy,

Although we have never met, your letters and Robs, have been an important part of my life. I have laughed and cried with you through all of your trials, and it has helped me through so many of mine. I prayed for Rob with you and almost a nation of people, we witnessed the power of prayer. What as awesome power, is our Lord. I know Rob is with him, there must be great joy in heaven, we can only wonder, what it will be like. I won't tell you all the platitudes people say, trying to make you feel better, when all you can feel is grief. We have to go through that, and it is never easy, no matter what anyone says. I mourn with you, I loved Rob's wonderful writing, I thought he was the sweetest man, it is a great loss to you and your family and friends, and to me also. I saved every letter he wrote and I will be so glad I did, when I am able to read them again.

Try to remember that as much comfort family and friends give you, only the "Great Comforter" can give you the peace that passeth understanding. That will come in time, you will have some dark days, but there will be joy too. You have such a great capacity for love, it is in every letter, and in all the things you do for your family and for others. I am glad you are still with us, but oh how I understanding your longing to be in heaven. You must have more of the Lord's work to do, and you have made a difference in my life, so I know your out-reach is helping others. Don't be afraid to ask us for our support, you need all the moral you can muster.

In closing, I realize you can't read all of the letters and answer all the calls you are receiving, I just hope that whoever reads these for you, will let you know how many people truly care about you.

May the Lord bless you and your family through this difficult time, and thank you for sharing Rob and your happy life together, with all of us.

Your friend, Cathleen L


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Hi Patsy
Once again your newsletters have disappeared from my email.  I have just subscribed with a different email address
in hopes that you will show up once and for all. 
 
I just heard about your husband, and I want to tell you that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. 
Rob was a wonderful and courageous man.  He is with our Father in Heaven now and he will be watching over you always. 
Please let me know if I can help in any way
Deanna

http://www.deannascandles.com

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you are in my prayers susan

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Patsy,
     Tears came to my eyes when I read about your loss. I do know how you must be feeling, because even the loss of my kitty put me into a deep depression. May God bless you.
Maryanne in Florida.


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Thinking of you & praying God will bring you peace at this time.
My dear Patsy....I am so truly sorry for the loss of Rob...I DO understand what you are going through right now..
Please know that I will keep you in my prayers and that Rob is shining down on you right now...
If you need to talk I am here..Take care my friend, ((HUGS))
Jennifer

http://www.jdsfreebies.com

To those who don't know...
Jennifer lost her husband a few months ago, while saving their son's life from drowning. God bless you too Jennifer.
Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friend.....
With love & hugs, Patsy


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Patsy -
I am so sorry!  I cried when I read your email.  Please know you will be in my prayers. 
Your email reminded me of how precious life is.  Take care of yourself.
Jackie


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Dear Patsy,
After reading of your loss, my heart hurt for you and your family.  Please know that you will all be kept in thoughts and prayers.  A white candle will also be lit for Rob...may his soul rest in peace and may you find comfort in the Almighty's Arms.
Rachelle R


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Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I feel honored to have known Rob.
Eve


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Patsy, I am so sorry about Rob's passing. But I know you can take comfort in your faith, and in all the memories you have when you are ready. I lost my mother on New Years eve 6 years ago, and I know it is hard. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. You should take all the time you need to get back on your feet. You will know when it is time to go back to work. Know that we will all miss you, but we understand that you need to take some time.
Pam P


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Oh my dear Patsy...
I am so sorry to hear your sad news.  I do hope that Rob was able to read my message to him in the Christmas card that I sent you.  I know he meant so much to you.  I don't even know what to say.  I am glad that you were able to find so much happiness with Rob, I only wish it had been longer.
Much love to you Patsy.  You are in my prayers...~mary~


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Dear Patsy,
I am so sorry to hear about Rob. You are in my prayers. I feel so helpless, not having the words to say to help you at this horrible time. I just had to let you  know that I am thinking of you.
God Bless,  Adrienne


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Patsy
My DEEPEST sympathy to you! Just remember and be happy that you had the PLEASURE of sharing this wonderful man, that HE sent your way!
Debbe


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Patsy, my heart goes out to you and all those who love your husband. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers for as long as needed. I will also send reiki, I am a reiki master/teacher and all it is is energy healing. It can do no harm and might help. Blessings, Sandy

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PATSY,
PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. KNOWING HE IS IN HEAVEN IS A BIG BLESSING, BUT IT DOESN'T MAKE THE SADNESS GO AWAY. I KNOW. ALL I CAN DO IS PRAY FOR YOU, PLEASE KNOW THAT I WILL.
JANET W


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Dear Patsy,
I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for you and to give you some words of encouragement that I will be here for you at this most hardest time for you. I know how it feels to lose someone you love dearly and the pain seems to not want to go away.
But believe in the Highest Power Above, He will keep you in his arms to comfort you if you let him. 
I will pray for you and your family. Sincerly,   Valarie B


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 take care of yourself   I will say a prayer for you and yours in this sad time

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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, Patsy.  My sincerest
condolences.  Irene R


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I read your site every day and I wanted to let you know I am very sorry to hear about Rob. It is a bad time of the year to lose anyone, but I know you must have tons of happy memories together. Please accept my deepest sympathy at your loss.
sandy a


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Patsy
I don't know what to say......I am so very sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband 11 years ago.  I was 31....and had a 8 week old baby.  I truly know what you are going thru, and will go thru for the next while.  Pull strength from all the people who love, and care for you and your husband.  None of them will really know what to say, but that will not matter......just being there for you will be a comfort.

I understand we may not hear from you for awhile, and that is OK...you will need some time to get things done, but we are still here, and from time to time will drop you a note. 

Take very good care of yourself...times like this sometimes we forget to look after ourselves.  And if you need some extra help please talk to your doctor.  They are there to help you
Kindest regards    Kathleen


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I am so sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer. pauls

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Patsy,
My heartfelt condolences Hun. I am soooo sorry for your loss and I feel  as though I knew Rob personally through your wonderful messages to your  subscribers about him. Heaven is very lucky to have such a wonderful  guy in their arms. Physically he may be gone, but he will live on in  your heart with all your wonderful memories that you shared with him.  No one can ever take that away from you! I do understand how you are  feeling right now and I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and  prayers. Please take very good care of yourself as Rob would want you  to. I'm sure as wonderful as Rob was, he will always be watching over  you. If you want to feel Rob, reach into your heart and pull out a  memory....they're the best!
Hugs and Prayers to you and your family Hun.
Sincerely, Nancy G


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Patsy,
I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your husband. He sounded like a
wonderful person. I only seen your email on here yesterday talking about him
going to the hospital, and I prayed for him just as soon as I read it. Now,
you will be in my prayers. God Bless you & your love one's.
Dora


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I am heartbroken that we have lost another good soul here on earth. I know you will get to be together again someday.
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina H,   Washington


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Dear Patsy,  I'm just an online e-mail person, but my heart aches for your
loss.  I know those left behind can't find too much comfort now, but knowing
that your loved one is in Paradise in the arms of our Lord is a small
comfort.  I know going on will be very difficult but you will have him as
your special angel watching over & continuing to love you.  You will be in
my prayers.   Kathy in G'ville Fla.


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I really feel for your loss and your pain.....you are in my thoughts and my
prayers...just remember that we are not people without hope, and you also
have a mission now to share deeply about your husband...to keep him alive in
your world as well as others who did not know him, or who feel the loss in
their own lives of those who did...you can keep him alive that way..keep the
flame burning in your world by being his spokesperson...I know what you mean
by saying he is with Jesus...that is so good to know, and if he is there,
then Jesus can also comfort you...hold you both at the same time....you are
with him, sis, you are with him when you lean on Jesus....be blessed and
rested in that....Davada R


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Patsy I am sorry to hear of your loss.  my prayers are with. 
Dale I. in South Carolina


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You've written a lovely note, Patsy.  God will be with you in this difficult
time and I'll remember you in my prayers.  Thank you for all the pleasure
you've provided us with your newsletter.  Do all you need to do for yourself
right now and get back to "regular" life when you can.  God bless you!
Robert M


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hello i haven't seen your nameon your emails i just wondered how you are doing??????? i have been praying for you  in the loss of your special friend and wonderfull husband. i hope you are doing better now. i know it must be the hardest thing to have to go through . i can't even picture it and i don't long for it to happen to me either. but
YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS & GOD LOVES YOU VERY MUCH


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I just heard about your loss today when I went to view your guest book. I am so sorry to hear about Rob's passing away. You know, whenever you updated your readers on his condition, I felt like we readers were apart of your family. Like one of the readers who signed your guest book said, "It will be felt all over the world".  Nelda F

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Dear Patsy,
 My deepest sympathy to you and your family on Rob's passing. I , too have recently lost a very close friend who meant the world to me, it has been alittle over 6 months, although the tears still flow and my heart still aches for him, I know one day his hand will guide me over to be together again and to meet Jesus. Keep Rob in your heart and know his soul is forever entwined with yours as I know my best friends is with mine. Time will help heal the pain and memories will substain you. Keep the faith and know one day you will be together with your one and only........God Bless you and may you feel Gods hand on your shoulder during this most difficult time.  signed.......a friend  from Vt.


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The Lord Knows
http://www.wphm.org/Lkbjm.html

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A prayer for you, from me....this is nice....

I had you in my heart.
 
I asked the Lord to bless you
As I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way...

His love is always with you
His promises are true,
And when we give Him all our cares
You know He will see us through...
 
So when the road you're traveling on
Seems difficult at best
Just remember I'm here praying
And God will do the rest.

Love you, Louise H.

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 Follow your Destiny
http://www.inspiringthots.com/movie/f-destiny.htm

Remembering Rob...he was my hero & the wind beneath my wings.
From Renie


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Patsy,
I know you have alot of emails.  I will make this short.  I am VERY sorry to hear of your husband passing on.  Know that he is looking at you every day with a huge smile on his face because you are a wonderful woman.  I am going to miss his newsletter and I hope you find some strength in this.
Thanks, Tory


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If tomorrow starts with me...
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Patsy
You have my deepest sympathy, I know you can have all the best wishes in the world sent to you but there Is no earthly one who can take his place, the only true One is our Maker.  He is asking you to lean on Him completely now and as soon as you do He will give you the peace and consolation that Only He can give.  
I know from experience we have to depend on Him in our losses.  My husband is not well and it concerns me.  I dread the tho't of ever losing him but I know we are only on lone from God and we each have our time to be called.  We must be willing to pick the pieces up and move on as best we can, altho it seems at times we can't.  I have had one loss and had to go on and I know thru Him I made it. Sounds to me you have a huge amount of friends to lean on also and that is what I did not have. At that time I had to transfer to another state to keep my job and I was among strangers.  My first priority was always to find a new church home.  God is So Good, keep your chin up and thanks for sending the pictures, I got to see whom I was writing to.
God Bless, Have a Great Day.
Helen I


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Dear Patsy and family...I am so sorry for your lost and no words  can help pull you and your Family thru this lost..I can only keep you all in our prayers so you can all get thru this lost....He  will always be with you all as you sleep and as you go on in your everyday life I assure you...You may not be able to see Him physically but as you walk thru life you will laways feel him...God Bless all of you
Lots Of hugs......................Kathy


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I am so sorry to here of your loss....I feel that the Lord has some work to
do that you and I am unaware of.....You will see him again, where there
will no pain and no tears........Always in your mind and over your shoulder
he is standing and will hold you at your most quietest time....
Hugs  Sandy


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My name is jessica.I enjoy all the recipes that are sent to me.I am very sorry to hear about rob.My fiance and I lost someone close to us last january from cancer.He fought to the end.Prayers and sympathy from us both.god bless.

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Just a quick note to say that your family is in my thoughts and prayers every day....God Bless:)
Love Kim


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My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Terry


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my thoughts and prayers to you and your mom. i get both of your emails. i
wish you much love and comfort in the loss of your dad and your moms
husband. peace and prayers to your family tammie


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Patsy,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and pain.  I have prayed with you for a
long time.  I don't know what to say except you said it yourself he is safe
in the arms of Jesus now.  Our prayers continue to be with you in this
difficult time.
CGT


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Hello Patsy and Kay:
I apologize for not sending my condolences before now.  My only excuse is
that Christmas was extra hectic for me probably because I am been in the
throes of a bad attack of chronic bronchitis for the past three weeks.
Every time I start getting better, I have to go outside for some reason, and
because of exposing myself to the cold air, the effects of these chronic
condition just seem to start all over.

But I knew today that I could not put this off any longer.  I have followed
the information about Rob and all his problems for quite a while now, and he
really fought the good fight.  It is just so sad that he had to die so
suddenly, but I believe that since he smiled as he did, he did know that
Patsy was by him, at least.  She loves him so much that I am sure she felt
his love, as well as the love of the rest of the family.

Like so many other people said, I am now praying for the family and praying
that he made an easy and smooth transition in heaven, where I am sure he is
now being cradled in the arms of God.  He was such a special man and I, too,
believe that he is now running through the streets of heaven, fully
functional and at peace because he has no more pain and no more problems
breathing.  Although I am sure you and Patsy will miss him like crazy and
wish he could have stayed with you a while long, the idea of having your own
personal angel watching over you must give you a really good feeling in your
heart and soul.

My prayers and with the two of you and the rest of the family as you got
through this time of mourning, sadness, grief and loss of such an important
part of your lives.  I will keep the two of you in my prayers as long as I
feel it is necessary or for as long as it takes for the two of you to accept
what has happened.  You will continue to be not only in my prayers, but also
in my heart and thoughts as well.

From having lost my mother in March of 2002 and our relationship had been
bad for years, having improved only during her last year of life, I can tell
you that it takes a while to get adjusted to losing a loved one like this.
But it will happen eventually, and you will begin to be at peace with losing
him--when the time is right and you are ready.  Just know that my thoughts
and prayers will be with you until then.

Because I answered your message rather than your mom's today, would you
please share this information with her?
Peace, love, light and angel hugs to you both,
Patti G


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i am truly sorry for your loss. i lost my husband a year ago, he was 45 yrs old and i never got to say goodbye or even i love you. so at least you have that memory. we were together for 11 yrs and we were inseparable. and don't let anyone tell you it was for the best, the best is being with them. i will say a prayer for you. hang in there jeannette

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you and your family can rest at ease to know the rob is at peace and can sleep knowing what rob done for everone is getting payback tenfold and that wood make him happy prays and love to the family matt

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Dear Patsy:  May our Lord send you the consolation that you need
through your husband's memories.  May your husband Rob rest in peace.
As I extend my deepest sympathy, you and your family are in my
prayers.  Our Lord needed Rob to start out the new Year with him.
Enjoy your memories with Rob.  God Bless You always! 
Sincerely, Olga M. S


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I am really sorry to hear of your loss. I have also lost someone dear to me. I am in praying for you and hope that you have the courage to do the things that i could not have done.  your friend   CINDY

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Patsy,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my husband in June of 1999. He was 42 years old. He also had a smile on his face. I believe he was smiling because he saw Jesus. It was hard to accept and it was also a big adjustment in my life to go on without him. Keep your trust in God and He will see you thru this and every trial you may face in the weeks to come. I can tell you that it gets easier with each passing day but it will never be the same. God sent me another wonderful man to spend my life with. I thank Him for that. Life goes on and we have to accept that. 2003 brought me 2 precious grandchildren, and I don't know what 2004 may bring, but with God's help I can make it thru year after year, until I meet my husband in Heaven. I'll keep you in my prayers.Debbie G


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I am very sorry for your loss.  Take care of yourself.

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Dear Patsy,
      Am so sorry about your sad news.  My prayers are
  with you. And know this: you are very lucky and
blessed to have known such love.  I know words can't
heal the ache you feel, so I will say no more for now.
Just that I look forward to your news letters return.
Thanks,  Mauricia (soloyochica)


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May God comfort you, bless you and be with you.
Thank you for what you do


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Patsy & Family,
 I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your
family at this sad time.May God bless each and every one of you.
  Drema A


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Patsy,
You and Rob are in my prayers.
RoseAnne in New York


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 i am sorry . you are not alone in your grief. i am 72 years old and i
have lost 2 sons, one brother, my parents and 3 grand children. i have
lost 10 of my 12 aunts and uncles. and 9 cousins.                
God be with you.   viva


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My heart goes out to you. I don't know what else to say but my prayers are with you.


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Patsy, I am so sorry for your loss, God bless you and your family in
your time of grief. I will pray for you always.  I know that you will
find peace in the Lord,in your grief,he will never leave you


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dearest patsy,
all my thoughts, love, tears and prayers are with you today.  i am so so very sorry for your loss.
thinking of you  margie va


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What a wonderful tribute you have made to him. I am crying with you Patty, please know that you are in alot of prayers.
Gods blessing on you.
Amber H


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You and your family have our deepest sympathies.  Right now, time is not your friend, but it will be down the road.  Memories are a wonderful thing and sustain us through our darkest hours.  Please take good care of yourself.
The Roe Family


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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for the loss of your wonderful Husband and Father. 
Yes, he is in Heaven with his Heavenly Father.
Jeanette S,  Minnesota


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Dear Patsy,
My prayers are with you and I am sure Rob is in heaven. I will miss hearing from you, but I know you will have alot on your hands and the coping will be rough. Just remember all the friends and family you have and Rob is really in a better place now. I know that isn't much comfort in losing a loved one, but it is true. Take good care of yourself and I will pray for you. I will be waiting to hear from you again when you are ready.
Vivian S


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Patsy,
You have my deepest sympathy and I will keep you in my prayers. Remember a quote from Gibran:
"When you look into your heart, that for which you are weeping, has actually been your delight."
 Barbara O


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So  very sorry...I just can't imagine how awful that would be.  In fact I
don't even want to think about it but please let us know how we can help you
at this time. My prayers are with you...Jean


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Dearest Patsy,
       My sympathies to you and yours on this eve.I know you will miss him
very much . Remember that our love ones are never gone, that to think of
them and they are there for us always in our hearts.
      God Bless you and speed your Grief.
Love in Christ  Debra D
Bayshore, NewYork


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I was sorry to hear of Rob's death. I will remember to pray for you, Patsy
Clintonia L


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I'M SO SORRY, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE KNOW HE IS IN A MUCH BETTER PLACE NOW. TAKE CARE GOD BLESS YOU, NICK

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Hello Patsy,
I am sorry to hear about Rob's passing. I will keep you in my prayers. May
you feel the comfort only God can give you right now.
God be with you!
Amy


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Hugs Patsy
my prayers and thoughts are with you
hugs  Donna


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i am so sorry to hear about your husband.
ruthie


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Patsy and family, I'm sorry about your loss and will
keep you and your family in my prayers. Carolyn


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So sorry for your loss.  Please know you will be in my prayers tonight.
Mary  
 John 3:36  He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life:
and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God abideth on him.


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sorry to hear of your loss. prayers are with you.
the anderson family


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Patsy,
What a strong woman you are. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It must comfort you to know that he is with his maker and looking down on you. He is still with you and would not want you stopping your life because he is not physically there. When ever you hear something that reminds you of him, he's there. When ever you smell something that reminds you of him, he's there. When ever you feel some one looking over your shoulder, he's there. Never forget that he loved you and now he is in paradise, making a comfortable place for you. Please know that you are in my prayers. Stay strong, Rob would have wanted that.
Take care,  Jenny, NC


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Your story of your love has touched me deeply.  I too have a love of my life.  I married my high school sweetheart and we just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this past October.  We too have been through tough times.  My husband broke his back three years ago while carrying a patient out of their home.  He had been a Paramedic for over 20 years when this happened and it has been hard on him personally to change careers when being a Paramedic is all he wanted to be.  And to complicate matters I was diagnosed with a brain tumor that ruptured after smashing my pituitary gland.  We have been there for each other and with the support of our family and our two grown sons we are trying to be stronger people.  But I can't imagine my life without him.  I share your grief for your lost and will keep you both in my prayers.
Tammy P


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Patsy, I am sooo sorry for your loss. Words cannot convey enough sympathy to
ease your sorrow. I pray that God sends you numerous "angels" to help you
during this time. I am sending you hugs and kisses across the ocean.
God Bless Tammy A


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Patsy,
My deepest condolences to you and your family!!  I'm so sorry for your loss......You and he will be in my prayers!!
Your faithful subscriber!
Isabel


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May GOD bless you and keep you safe.
Be blessed  George Jones


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My deepest and most sincere sympathy, Patsy.  May you find the strength you need to cope with you loss and the peace to go on, until your time comes, when you will be re-united, with your dear, sweet husband, for all time.  Until then, which i hope, will be many, healthy, happy years, living in grand memories of him, know that God and his Angels, will take great, loving care of Rob. Respectfully, Marion

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Oh Dear Patsy and Kay - I am so very sorry for your loss of Rob. How awful
and what a shock. I just can't believe it. But I agree with you, he is safe
now in the loving arms of our Lord Jesus. You are a very strong woman, and
God will get you through this, just trust in Him. May He comfort you and
keep you in His care. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
All my best, Michelle


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I hope that you find strengh in the love you shared together, the memories you
have will fill your life with courage and hope.
!JOY!


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Dear, Dear Patsy,
I am so sorry for your loss.  We will pray for you. I cannot fathom the pain
you must be in, knowing you will never see your loved one again.
Sincerely, Alice


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is there anything we can do for you? do you need someone to help you out with anything that we can do online for you.? i am so sorry that you lost him but we know that he has gone to a much better place. just hang in there and you will go be with him someday. if you need anything my number is ---- and my name is jean. hope to hear from you.

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Im so sorry to hear about your loss.I lost my son 3 months ago and i know the pain your going through.Im so very sorry.
Rosalie M


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Dear Patsy,
Words are inadequate to express condolences in the sorrow of your loss.  I've followed your e-mails and updates during the past year or so and have marveled at the bravery of both you and Rob throughout all his ups and downs and hospital mishaps and credit  his (and your) unbelievable stamina and optimism, as well as your faith in God that's gotten you through.  Many a day I've been at my desk here at work and couldn't stop the tears when reading what was going on with you.  Now that Rob's suffering is over and he is at peace with the Lord, I hope time will help you to cherish all your memories and carry on until the day you two will be together again.
God Bless you and yours,
Barbara


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I'm so sorry I know how you feel I lost my husband 3 yrs ago this month. May
God be with you  Marcia H


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When my Mother went home to the Lord almost 3 years
ago, it helped me to ask Jesus what she was doing right
at that moment in Heaven, and He would tell me.  As the
days and weeks went on, even though at first for
months, I asked alot, gradually I started not asking so
much.  I don't alot anymore, instead I envision her in
Heaven, fellowshiping with our loved ones, and helping
to tend the children in Heaven. 

Even though it doesn't seem like it, I didn't think it
would either, a couple of days after my Mothers "very
sudden unexpected passing", my Grandmother on my Dad's
side, said,   it's going to get worse, how could it get
worse, I couldn't imagine, but then she said, it will
get better.  I thought the first part of what she said
was unimaginable, it did get worse for a short time,
but it did get better too, and even though there are
times, I still tremendously miss her.  It's not as
often, we, my family made it through the darkest days
of our lives, and I am so thankful that I had Jesus to
run too, and that you do too.  He makes it all right,
the Holy Spirit is our Comforter,   He is our Strength,
and He is our hope, we have hope for tomorrow, you are
in His loving arms too, and as the days unfold,    He
will unfold more experiences in Him, and surprises,
that you wont feel seperated from you husband, even
though He has changed residents.  God's blessings to
you.  Thank you for the blessing you have always been
with your wonderful recipes.  Love in Christ, Donna


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my condolence to you and yours, i have been recieving this news letter for over a year now and a blessed by it i chose this stationary so you can look at it and think and know that rob is looking down from heaven and smiling knowing that you are staying strong and knowing that one day you will be together God bless you and keep the faith
in his steed his warrior daniel w


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I am so sorry for your loss, may peace find you in the future.  The Lord has a plan for us all.
LeAnne A


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Patsy I am so sorry about your loss.  I can not imagine what you must be
going through.  I will keep you in my prayers.  And know that for that ocean
you have cried God has let your loving Rob look down and see the love that
you had for him.  Just remember that although his body is gone he will
forever live with you in his spirit.  Nothing anyone says can take the hurt
away and no one can tell you that they know how you feel unless they have
been in the place you are now.  I would just like to say that I am here if
you need a shoulder or just a ear.  I have another e-mail that I check more
often it is onlykk and also my yahoo messenger id is kk.  I
will not tell you have to feel but I will be here to listen.
Lots of Hugs and Prayers
KK


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God bless you.  My heart goes out to you and wish you well.  You have a
wonderful memory and he will live forever in your heart.
Bonnie


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Dear Patsy,
My dearest wishes go out to you and your family at this tragic moment in your journey through life.  Words will never be able to express how much we feel for you.  Just know that when you walk out at night and see a bright star twinkling down at you - that star is your love, Rob, watching over you.  Wave to him and let him know you are going on as God wants you to, but you are  waiting for that wonderful day when you will be together again.  God bless and keep his love flowing to you!
Fondly, another Patsy


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My dearest Patsy and Kay, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I feel as if I lost a friend. He will be sorely missed. My heart and prayers are with you and Kay as you go thru this terrible time. But as you said, Rob is in heaven. He is no longer suffering. Remember, you have a lot of faithful friends and family to support you. With love, Diana C, Toulumne, California, USA

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Dearest Patsy....my heart goes out to you....my prayers are with you always and I attend mass everyday and the candles that I light will be in Robs memory....my husband and I do everything together and are never apart....please know he is in heaven and safe.......all my love..Kathy A

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HUGS TO YOU AND YOU FAMILY PATSY...VERY SORRY TO HEAR THIS. Colleen C and Family...By the way what part of Newfoundland are you in again??? My husband's family is from Springdale . We may go down there someday his parents live in Port Anson.

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My condolences to you for the loss that you have recently had.  Dale J

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Patsy,
I am so very sorry!I will be praying for you! I know I can't understand your pain because my husband is still with me but I lost my dear Daddy in 2001 and I know how it feels to lose someone you love! HAng in there and if you need anything just holler at me! Love, Hugs & Prayers!
Joyce


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Dear Patsy,
I know what you are going through.  I lost my Dad 3 years ago and it is still
hard at times to not have him around.  He was such a kind person and never met
anyone who didn't love him.  Please hang in there and as time goes by it gets
easier, but never the same without them.  As my Dad always said life must go on
and at least we have great memories to help get us through the tuff times.  You
are in my prayers and may God be with you in your time of need.  My Dad died
smiling, too.  Yes they are in a good place now.  Take care and always remember
to take all the time you need to grieve.  It is healing to cry and let it out
instead of holding it in.  Bless you, Wanda


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God bless you and keep you in his loving arms. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Karen R

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  Sarah J

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Dear Patsy:
Our prayers go out to cover you in comfort. While Rob's physical vase has worn out, he is still with you.  Close you eyes and feel his love. He is holding onto you. Great Spirit's comfort and blessings to you.
Lee and Charlotte


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Patsy I know not if you will receive this or not but
I wanted to tell you how I got through a hard time
when my husband Jim died Jim had cancer and I felt so
helpless when he died like I could have done more. I
remember for the longest time that kept thinking I
would see him when I walked into the living room but
he wasn't there.  But then I thought he isn't in pain
anymore and he would always be in my heart even if he
was not there physically.  After awhile the pain
subsided and happy memories replaced the loss. 
I hope this helps.  Pat T


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Dear Patsy
I am so sorry about your husband
I will keep you in my prayers
Debbie J


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My Dear Patsy, My heartfelt sympathy for the loss of Rob, all of us out here are so sadden by his loss he was a wonderful and couragous man who we all loved....I have been with you since before Rob had gone into the hospital and fell so ill last year, so you are like family to us and we feel your pain and your loss, Patsy you are always in our prayers and I think I speak for all your readers when I say that although each of us may be far away from you we are also by your side and we love you.
 
May god guide you through this and may he lay his gentle hand upon your heart and hold it and and you through this very difficult time....All our Love and Prayers Patsy to you and your family, We are all here for you and your family whenever you may need us   Love Vickie F  Chardon, Ohio


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Patsy,
 I went through this 6 years ago with the love of my life.We were married for 23 years and I felt my life was over and wanted to be with him too, but God has other plans for us. Stay strong my dear and my heart goes out to you,for I truly know what it's like to lose your lifesmate. My prayers are with you.
 Louise B


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